is it possible to fall in love on a cam site?

sun · Guest

that should be freaky ...thats unreal..to fall in love on a cam site ...how come..you see just a picture even if you see live video..as for me i i have to touch...i have to look at...i have to talk...argue with me boys

sun

latinchathost · Only just live Joined: 10 Jun 2005

Unfortunately it is true. One of my best (and profitable) performers got married to a regular visitor. Grrrrrrr (I feel jelous)...where can I find a girl like her?

tony · Site Admin Joined: 12 Oct 2004

Ha, it's more like getting a crush on a movie star.

Wait until they get home and she introduces him to her 17 relatives that are now going to be supported by his salary! Laughing

The girls are in it for the money, ok? It's a job -- maybe a fun job -- but it's a job. Everybody keep their reality screwed on straight please.

Tony

Chameleon

Obsessions can be scary things. I'm tempted to agree with Tony - yeah, it's a job, and part of the job is making the guys feel special (I've done phone sex as a paid worker, and I'm sure that it's not THAT different in the basics). But as far as it being like a picture, nah, not really. I mean, THIS picture talks to you, answers your questions, asks you questions, interacts with you.. lots of people "fall in love" online. I'm less skeptical about that than I am about falling in love with someone who gets off on cam for a living.

Danny · Guest

So are you suggesting that you can't fall in love with someone that sells sex for a living? Or that people like strippers and camgirls don't fall in love with their customers? Why? That seems like a pretty prejudiced statement. I mean, why not? Camgirls are looking for love just like anyone else.

Chameleon

No, I didn't mean to imply that at all. It's just like Tony said - it's more like getting a crush on a movie star. Only this movie star talks directly to you. How do you know that she's not talking the same way to other guys?

On the other hand, it's just another way of meeting someone. If something clicks between a girl and a customer, I guess it clicks, right?

magan · Only just live Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Location: NewYork

heh things coming thru my mouth after 4 years experience in this job Laughing

but i wont say anything LOL

Chamie · Guest

Oh, please do! Tell us tell us..

magan · Only just live Joined: 30 Oct 2005 Location: NewYork

if i tell u... the magic bubble will just pop! n there will be NO fun

smirque · Guest

I know of three marriages from cum-tv and they are all still married, I have also had a chance to meet some of the girl I travelled to another country to see them. I know many guys who have done that and had some success, if you know what I mean, and I think ya do

gethang · Only just live Joined: 16 Nov 2005

What happened to this conversation. I'm wanting to know! LOL

InternationalManofMystery · Liven it up! Joined: 10 Dec 2005

I suppose it's possible to fall in love with anyone under any circumstances....but in this situation the only thought that comes to mind is WHY? Confused

Falling on love seems to imply taking things further than what they already are. Why go and ruin a good thing? Spend quality time with your lady, have a great time, say goodnight and come back at a later time to play again.

Sounds simple enough to me!

tony · Site Admin Joined: 12 Oct 2004

No way, love dont mean you gotta go anywhere with it -- just like I said, it's the same with falling for some movie star.

Though I don't think any guy over 16 actually falls for a movie star -- more like just wants to bone them!

Tony

Ccucu · Only just live Joined: 14 Dec 2005 Location: Romania

I guess it doesn't matter if she is a web-cam girl. A girl is beatifull if she has a nice soul... profession doesn't matter. I guess you can make a life with a girl like this. For some of the girls is not that they like what they do, but they have to do this to make a living.

Well, this is only my opinion.

InternationalManofMystery · Liven it up! Joined: 10 Dec 2005

I can understand what you are saying. I guess I am thinking more of the extreme. It seems when the "L" word becomes part of any relationship it always seems to screw up a good thing. At least in my experiences.