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sirkope
Live wire!
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 12:57 pm Post subject: Moral question / Moral question |
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Hi all,
I have a theoretical question from vidchatters who has a girlfriend/wife.
When you ask a girl to do thing to you in a video chat, do you cheat your wife/girlfriend or not?
In other way, if you buy sexual services without physical contact, does it matter to cheating or not?
It's a bit different, when you watch porn in the TV, in magazines or on the net, because it is a passive. But when you do videochat you order the girl to do st. and it is an INTERACTION, so you are an active part of it.
So, I'm curious about your opinions  |
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tony
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Joined: 12 Oct 2004
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| Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 2:06 pm Post subject: / Moral question |
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| It's in your head isn't it -- do you care? Do you feel like you're cheating? Then you are... |
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nitronads
Liven it up!
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 4:01 pm Post subject: / Moral question |
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| is she ugly???? |
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sirkope
Live wire!
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 12:05 am Post subject: / Moral question |
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| nitronads wrote: | | is she ugly???? |
No, she isn't. |
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sirkope
Live wire!
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 12:07 am Post subject: / Moral question |
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| tony wrote: | | It's in your head isn't it -- do you care? Do you feel like you're cheating? Then you are... |
I don't think so. But I don't want to be 'caught in the act'  Maybe she would think, that it's a cheating. |
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sirkope
Live wire!
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 12:13 am Post subject: / Moral question |
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A matter of fact, that her gynecologist saw more her pussy than me, 'cause she is too shy to show me as open as the chathost girls, and she has a hairy pussy, she loves do sex at night, in a not so big light. She think if she would show herself that way she would be a piece of flesh.
Does it have sence ? |
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nitronads
Liven it up!
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 2:31 am Post subject: / Moral question |
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| sounds like shes not comforatable with her body mate, build that up slowly and she should be right....just dont try and get her to do some of the stuff the web girls do coz sometimes not even the town bike is that comfortable. but back to first question,how long do you spend on the cams?if your substituteing them for her, not good...might be adding to the prob. |
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sirkope
Live wire!
Joined: 13 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Thu Jan 11, 2007 6:14 am Post subject: / Moral question |
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| nitronads wrote: | | sounds like shes not comforatable with her body mate, build that up slowly and she should be right....just dont try and get her to do some of the stuff the web girls do coz sometimes not even the town bike is that comfortable. but back to first question,how long do you spend on the cams?if your substituteing them for her, not good...might be adding to the prob. |
Maybe you're right, she not confortable with her body.
I've started this vebcam chat about half a year, and I took about 8 times.
One session takes about 8-17min.
No, I don't substitute then for her, after 8 years of marriage and two children I still want sex with her, but you (probably) know, that before marriage have sex more often then after There's a afterbirth depression stuff, and when the kids are babies and wake up at night, you can hardly 'finish' any action.
But HEY, this topic is not from me, I'm curious about the others opinions |
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Striker10
Live wire!
Joined: 26 Nov 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 10:14 pm Post subject: / Moral question |
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| I don't know. i think it's something the couple would have to decide. I can understand both - probably more so with the cheating because let's face it your not thinking of your wife while your tugging away lol. No matter how much you try and convince her your visualizing her it ain't happening. I probably would though I understand a lot wouldn't |
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bling2004jr
Live wire!
Joined: 14 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Wed Jun 13, 2007 10:30 pm Post subject: / Moral question |
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| im on my second marriage. i have 4 kids total. me and wife look at camchatting is much like a porno. neither of us use it for satiification we use it for a little stimulation. but its diffrent strokes for diffrent folks its all in what you feel and think. but every marriage will fall apart without honesty and openess. |
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mantorras8
Only just live
Joined: 28 Jan 2007
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| Posted: Sun Jun 24, 2007 5:50 pm Post subject: / Moral question |
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like someone stated above, its really up to what you really feel about it ... for me, its not cheating.
its really a long shot but ... why not sit down , have a talk with her and ask her about it? |
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