Why is human sexuality how it is?

Dude Love · Live wire! Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Location: La-la Land

I got a question. I guess I could ask God but He isnt talking so I will do the next best thing and ask you folks. I know that there is plenty of variability in men and women but in general, how come the gender with the biggest capacity to enjoy sex and orgasm over and over is the one that can take it or leave it alone? While the guys are so driven by it we have a bad rep and then most of us are one-shots? It aint fair I tells ya!

So, what is your theory?

jambo · Live wire! Joined: 08 Mar 2006

Profound, but so true.... Girls just seem to be wired differently to guys.

I'm not one for the Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus trash, but... there's a ring of truth to it.

Despite women being able to have more big O's, guys totally seem more interested...

Though, it doesn't help, of course, that a woman who loves sex is a 'ho' but a guy who loves sex is a horny 'playa' -- Stupid stereotypes, if you ask me.

Perhaps the women actually like sex as much as we do, but they're scared to look like ho's??

BigMack · Live wire! Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Location: T for Texas

Good ol' double standard. You ask an interesting question, my friend, but I doubt many people will be willing to touch it with a 3.28-meter pole -- too many opportunities for getting in trouble.

Actually, J, there was a study a few years ago that proved women take 4 times longer to get aroused as men. As Jay Leno pointed out, "What is that, eight seconds?"

jambo · Live wire! Joined: 08 Mar 2006

I was thinking about this and I reckon the reason women aren't into 'sex' seemingly as much as us men - as in, (without overgeneralizing) most women don't surf porn or chat on cam sites - is because, if they were to get their rocks 'off' online, there's no opportunity for cuddling afterwards...??? Confused

Don't quote me on that... Just an observation, of another stereotype....