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Hello,

I just found this site, and I must say WOW it's very interesant!

I am working on LiveJasmin since 2 years, and as webmodel since 4 years.

Always i was wondering and asking myself, what bring the men to site like this, I am glad I have been found some answer of my questions here.

Other way I must say, LiveJasmin is great site for customers, they can find there everything they would like..

Wish you all the best

Webcamgirl V.

tony · Site Admin Joined: 12 Oct 2004

HI ya WebcamGirl. So maybe you can tell us what it's like on YOUR side of the camera? Are we guys all a bunch of pathetic cheap loosers? Go on -- tell us the truth, you're anon right! Laughing

Tony

Guest · Posted: Tue May 31, 2005 5:05 pm Post subject: :o) / LiveJasmin

Hello Tony ;o)

LOL you are funny :P

Hmm I had meet 3 sort of man on the chat ;o)

1) some of them are rude to us, calling us bitches and stupid cows, I dont try to take it personaly, cause what they can know about us.

None of them care why this and this girl choosed this job, if she has at home little baby and no money for food, if she lost job and havent the possibility find new - if she is older...etc..

2) some guys are respectfull, sad about their life, no g/f or wife and they seems to be happy that they can talk to somone, and that some is listen them! Mostly of them has no selfbelieving and they seems to be happy that nice girls is giving them attention, as in free chat so in privat.

3) Horny bunnies ;o) Searching this things , what they can't get in real life,extreme play, naughty talking.

Pffff have been writting so much, dont think that someone will care about it LOL :o)

Hope I answered your questions? :o)

Let answer my... what bring you to the diea create site like this? What for feeling you have from webcam chats?

have a gr8 evening ;o)

Webcamgirl

PS: sorry for my bad english, come from czech,and at school I had deutsch :p

gerry · Live wire! Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Not idaho

Well I'd say webcam girl that you explained the different types of voyuers very well. I too enjoy watching webcam sites and I guess I would probably fall into the catagory of, between 2 and 3, all men enjoy having a pretty girl pay attention to them. It's called feeding the ego.

As for number 3 there is something about being able to share your kinky fantasies and fetishes with a stranger. You don't want to tell your mate about the wild little things that turn you on because even though they have seen you at your most vulnerable and you know they love you unconditionally, there is still this front that you want to put up to make yourself look better in their eyes, so that means not always showing your human side.

It's easier when it's someone you don't know, you can be as wild as you want, and live out all those naughty thoughts that you've always kept to yourself for fear of being judged, but with a stranger it doesn't matter because you don't know them, they don't know you and you'll never have to actually look them in the face.

mike · Live wire! Joined: 12 Nov 2004

I agree with Gerry on this one, it is much easier to be yourself with a complete stranger, I think that is the big turn on when you're in the dating field, getting to know each other and being able to let loose a little. But then once responsibility is on your shoulders, then you have an image to protect.

I don't understand the number one group, why would guys be so cold and ruthless, I mean, they are there to serve a purpose of "enjoying" themselves, so why be abusive with it? Makes you wonder how they treat women in their actual life.

Your english is fine webcam girl, don't worry about that!

WebCamGirl · Only just live Joined: 31 May 2005 Location: Germany

Good evening Mike and Gerry!

Thank you for the reaction on my post here!

I am happy that I found here someone who like to talk about webchat.

For me is important to understand the men coming to my room too. You both was explain me that really great :o)

I think this open talking can bring both sides lilttle bit more understanding :o)

I dont understand the rude man too, they have probably lots of agressivity inside, and also who knows what was happend to them in real life.

It just dont bring good atmosphere to the room, and bring shadow to the faces of models.

So how long have you been join webcams?

Do it helps you to be more free in privat life?

I am sorry if I am asking to privat things, I am just girls, putting nose everywhere I can :oops: :P

have you Mike and Gerry great evening

webcamgirl

WebCamGirl · Only just live Joined: 31 May 2005 Location: Germany

PS: Mike thank you about compliment for my english, just know byself it isnt wooooow :lol:

gerry · Live wire! Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Not idaho

Webcam girl you are like a breath of fresh air! And you are doing just fine on here. As for me and webcam watching, I've only been "partaking" in the activity for about the past year.

I think in some ways it does give you the permit to be a little more free, but under no circumstances does it give you the right to be rude to the girls, they are just trying to make a living.

I've found that it's relieved stress and tension in my "normal" life as well. When certain urges have been satisfied I'm more at ease and I don't feel frustrated over not being able to share my fantasies with my wife.

Trying to keep up the good image you know!

mike · Live wire! Joined: 12 Nov 2004

Hey webcam girl, glad you wrote back. Maybe you can help us males see the "error of our ways" when we visit sites like yours.

I've been doing the webcam scene for about 3 yrs I'd say and for me it's strange, my first few months I was spending time with the same girl over and over again, mostly because she was the asnwer to all the things I was lusting after.

Even tho I had a steady girlfriend at the time that was more then willing to experiment wtih whatever, it just wasn't the same as the freedom I felt with this online friend of mine.

I found myself wanting to spend more and more time with her, which I knew would put me right back into the same situation that I was already in, familiar face that you feel you have to end up changing and being more "perfect and normal" for.

So why do you think guys do that? Have you ever had anyone totally infatuated with you?

tony · Site Admin Joined: 12 Oct 2004

Thanks for the great post webcamgirl -- I like the three categories thing.

Really don't get the rude ones though -- is it good that they can release their anger in a "safe" way (e.g. nobody physically hurt) -- or is it bad because it encourages them that they can be rude to women without any problem?

That's a tough one, personally I'd not be happy with it -- people gotta learn to control ehtier negative emotions. If they got too much anger go hit a punching ball and don't take it out on people (either with words or with hands)!

Tony

Guest · Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2005 1:54 pm Post subject: :o) / LiveJasmin

Hello Mike,Gerry and Tony!

Thank you for reaction on my messages!! It is pleasure for me!

I am sorry I cannot answered earlier, LOL like a paradox, yesterday I left jasmin. Now searching the correct site.

Mike,you were asking, if I had any customer infatuated with me. Well yes I did, but in the good way. He knew I have a b/f, but he were hoping that I will broke with my b/f for him. This of course wasnt happend, and I was telling it to the customer all the time, that it is not possible. Then he got mad, and I didnt saw him anymore.
I find it little bit silly,why he got mad at me, if I told him from the start it isnt possible to be with him..? Maybe you guys can explain, whats happend in the head of man? lol

I said here were crazy in the good way,it can happend much more harder! One college of me,she had man, crazy for her, and none knows how, the man found the address of the studio, and one day he was waitting infront of the door at studio, and when she cames out, he come to her, and front of all people staying on the street was giving her money and wanted fuck with her! Terrible! awww!

Tony, about the rude guys, as I said, I try to not care about it anymore. As I said I do this job 4 years, and learn to not get pissed from every "sick" man and not getting down from it!
Something else it was when I start working as webmodel. I was taking all what the men said so really LOL!
When they told me how beautifull I am, I was proud and got selfbelieving! (Few months later I found they tell the same to other girls bohooo,thats mean) LOL!!
And as I was taking complients that they mean it real, I was taking also rude comments to my person!
When someone wrote to me, that I am travestit,bitch,ugly etc.. Man, I was so down with psychick, remember day when I was crying on the chat,cause one man wrote me I am ugly as hell,and what I am doing on chat! Yea, it wasnt so nice from him, but stupid from me that I wasnt ignore that!
Now I am older, know (or think) how its really going, so I know the best way how to send the rude man to the hell is, ignore them!

Gerry, you do all best! If chatting (playing) with girls, bring out stress of your life, you feel free,and finally your fantasies come true, GO ON!
I personaly think, that if man coming on chat for little play, it is accepting!
You dont do anything wrong, cause, you dont touch!
I think Wife of man can be happy about it, if he is coming on chat for little fun! Well,this is better than find other girl and do sex in real, or??
And if you like something in sex, what your wife or g/f not accept, you can be sure, that modesl on chat will pleasure you, and you dont have to have "black" thinking about that u do something wrong!
Also i think,that girls on chat, cost smoller money then girl in real ;o)) No dinner,no presents, just from $0,99 - $4,99 per min. Thats not bad.

Oki guys I will finish now,I wrote to much LOL Surprised

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Hope I will hear from you soon ;o)

Webcamgirl

WebCamGirl · Only just live Joined: 31 May 2005 Location: Germany

I am sorry guys, I forgot to log in before!

Awww yea, I am just a girl! SORRY!

Surprised

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Byeeee

Webcamgirl

gerry · Live wire! Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Not idaho

Hello again Webcam girl! I truly enjoy reading your responses, they are sweet and enlightening. Yes, it's true, the price of webcamming is much less than keeping the women of our life happy, but in a marital way it's not something I mind doing, I enjoy showering her with gifts and I guess my time on webcam is my way of showering myself with something special.

As I mentioned in earlier post there is a certain image that I feel I should protect, even though she knows me better then anyone else in the world, there are still little parts of me that I just don't feel like opening up and sharing. I have a certain stature that I don't want to see crumble, so I don't say anything.

My enjoyment of the webcam sites really does keep things on a more level area for my life, I can have everything I want when I want. I would never tell the Mrs. that I do webcamming because to her that would be just as terrible as actually being with a woman one on one. She would still see it as me being unfaithful. If you have a special man in your life and you find out that he is spending intimate moments with a webcam site, wouldn't that make you feel like you weren't giving him everything that he needs to keep his intentions and erections at home?

mike · Live wire! Joined: 12 Nov 2004

Hey webcam girl! I'm not sure I can really tell you what goes on in a man's head, but I think that guy that was infatuated with you must have thought that he could steal your heart away from your b/f, and when he realized that wasn't going to happen he got mad. More at himself probably for wasting the time and money on something that you made clear wasn't going to work out.

As for your friends situation, that is scary!!! I hope nothing like that ever happens with you. Guys just become so overwhelmed and let their little head do the thinking for them. Just because a girl seems to be nice to them and give them everything they want in "that" world, they think that's the way it should be in real life. They can't separate the two.

Guest · Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2005 9:05 pm Post subject: :o) / LiveJasmin

Hello you both!

Thank you again for your messages!

I must write you what happend today!

I have regular customer, since 6 months. He become my friend, we was chatting also in my free time.

3 Months ago,he come to privat, and told me that doctors found,he has cancer!

In the first moment, I though he wanna fake me, cause I found that customers find always some way how to get smoller price for privat, and are not affarid to use bad tricks.

I have been still talking to him, and got the feeling thats may be true!
I was giving him the power, for fight with the sickness!

He sent me also pic of him, sympatic older man..

My b/f all the time told me, that the customer is a good acter, i dont should believe him...

And today i got email from the customer's friend, that today in mornig he died!

I must tell you, have 2 feeling inside me, one is that I am much sad, and the second is, that i wanna believe it was just trick!

Dont know what to think about, but well it isnt nice story!

What do you think about it guys?

Mike about the situation, nothing like this was happend to me. I take care very well, to not giving any info about myself!
If I see what for people coming on chat, someone wanna play that he is killing me etc... no thanks! Thats too scary, and you never know who you finally can meet.

But can say, that i found on chat my Love, we are togather 4 years and 2 years living togather.
To all pessimist man, which think that girls on chat wanna just money and hasent any feelings.... not all ;o)
Maybe some of you will find on chat also true Love ;o))

And about the man what got mad at me, yes Mike I think you have true! probably he got angry by wasting his time on me, if there was so many girls, who knows. Man are like a weather (as we girls too) Surprised

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Gerry, you have totally right! I will feel like fake, if I find b/f on site like this! Well I think that 2 adult people always find the way to talk, also about sex! If woman know about some speciality what you like in sex, and she not agree to do that with you, then I think, she must agree with it, to you join the sites like this!
She must know that for her it will be better than if u find some girl in real!

And also I know, that man likes pleasure girl, bring her flowers and some presents, man wanna feel like a king, right guys? ;o)
In this moment, are on many sites, whats offer you to send girl a present.
So if you have really your favorit girl go on, pleasure her, and do all things like in real ,o)
Go to privat, take a bottle of wine, she will have one too, and lets use the time in privat for conversation,drinking wine, compliments, and maybe if u will be good, she will let you come " to her home for little coffee" Surprised

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Also have some tips for you guys ;o))

If you see on chat some girl, what you really much like, and wanna take some attention from her....be funny, be different than the other man ;o)
because, sometimes i have feeling that customers what i have in my room, are coming out from the same Fabric ;o) Hello beuty wow u look nice...over and over and over again ;o)
Try to find some words, what not all find to use ;o)
You will see that you will get full attention from her Surprised

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Oki Mike and gerry, I am into go to the bath and take a little relax ;o)

Hope you enjoy your evening ;o)

Kisses

Webcamgirl